Saturday, November 7, 2015

My Family Culture


My Family Culture

If I were forced to live abroad in a forging country and could take only three personal items with me I would take the following items.

1.     I would take my family photo album with priceless photos with the image of my family members that I may not see again because of the forced assignment to live abroad. 

2.     I would take the baby shoes and blankets that I keep and cherish from each of my three sons. The shoes are their first pair of tiny shoes and the blankets that I wrapped each son in. One of the blankets was made just for them by a family member.

3.     The third item would be some jewelry that my grandmother gave me that she used to wear when she was a young woman. I clearly remember the day she gave them to me. We were just rummaging around in her jewelry box and I was admiring some the beautiful vintage pieces and she handed me a pair of ear rings and a ring. She is no longer living so of course I cherish the pieces.

I would explain to others the importance of family value and love that can be represented in tangible items. Each item touches my heart with priceless memories of the person who actually touched and wore the item creating a connection with it. In addition, the photos are captured images of my family members that could not be replaced. After arriving in the forging country, if I were told that I could only bring one item with me and leave two personal items behind I would be heart broken.

The insights I gained is that I am a very sentimental person and family oriented, and my family is the same. Our family culture believes in passing on family history and traditions.      

1 comment:

  1. Darlene, I agree that passing on the family history and traditions is important in keeping one's culture. Since our family was on the move when I was young, there are many family pieces that we have lost. Looking back, I wish we were more thoughtful of saving them.

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